Recent DUI & job offer

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LOJ in Eugene, Oregon

3 months ago

I recently received a job offer as well as a DUI. Perfect timing, right? :/
A week before getting the job offer I was dropping a friend off (who had way too much to drink) after a work event when I was pulled over. I had a few drinks hours before getting pulled over. I was arrested & charged with driving under the influence. I will spare everyone the details of the arrest but I have never hated or felt so disgusted with myself and previous to this I had never driven while even being the slightest bit intoxicated. I've never received a ticket, or even been pulled over by the police for that matter. I have, or should I say, had an outstanding driving record previous to this incident. I take full responsibility for what happened, the law is the law but I do plan on fighting this charge.

My question is, how do I go about telling this employer about this HORRIBLE and disgusting mistake? They have not asked for a background check but they would like to know when I can start & I do believe that one of the qualifications for the position is that the candidate have a valid drivers licence as well as a driving record that complies with their insurance carrier. However, during the interview process and job posting for this position it did not state that it necessarily requires me to drive or operate an employee vehicle. During the second interview with this company they stated that they would like me to run light errands from time to time. The position is Receptionist/Admin Assistant

I have not been convicted & I currently have a temporary drivers permit (which will expire soon) that allows me to drive. I need a world of advice here. A part of me wants to call them and decline the offer but this has been my dream company to work for since I graduated college. I feel like the dumbest person alive. Please any help on what steps I should take would greatly be appreciated.

Please spare me the rude & hate comments. You have no idea how dumb I feel right now.

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Sal in Salt Lake City, Utah

3 months ago

Sometimes there's just no solution to a problem. You made a mistake, and now you're getting hit with the consequences.

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LOJ in Eugene, Oregon

3 months ago

I met with a few other people in the company today and they still did not mention anything about a drivers licence. They are calling me and making their final offer tomorrow. I have had anxiety all day and week about this. I want to be honest with them about what has happened since I am an honest person but I know that this may greatly affect their view of me and offering me this position.

I keep getting a mixture of opinions on what I should do. I have been told not say anything up until they ask (if they ever ask) & others have said to just tell them about it in case they happen to find out. I suppose I will meet with my attorney to gain his opinion on the matter as well. I cannot believe this is happening but thank you for the advice.

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VV in Santa Monica, California

3 months ago

That's really terrible to hear. I have a couple of friends who had DUI the past year and they're perfectly responsible people but they made a mistake. Gathering from their experiences, always get a lawyer. Check your contacts, I hear it's worth the pay. And while you are with them, see what they have to say about the job. But if your employer ever ask, it's always important to be honest. I'd be worst if they find out you lied. Good luck.

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LOJ in Eugene, Oregon

3 months ago

VV has the DUI affected any of your friends present or future employment? I thank you for your advice. I am meeting an attorney tomorrow. I do think I'm going to accept the offer and see what happens. The job does not require that I drive however on occasion I will have to run errands. Also the company has an insurance carrier. Do I need to have a licence to be part of their insurance claim/be employed? Should I just tell them that I am currently not driving & provide them with other proof of identification or how should I go about doing this?

I would not necessarily be lying & if asked why I do not have a licence should I then tell them about my charge? I am freaking out here. I cannot believe the mess I have gotten myself into. However, the advice is much appreciated.

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VV in Los Angeles, California

3 months ago

LOJ, I am not an expert in any of this but it looks like the insurance company can obtain information about your driving record.

www.dui-auto-insurance.com/faq.html

Since your DUI is recent, I'm not sure how quickly it will effectively stain your driving record.

I know I'm a hypocrite for telling you to lie but what if you say you don't have access to a car till X amount of months-- this is if you get your license revoked. One reason could be that you've been having car problems and looking to fix the existing vehicle or purchasing a new one. But if you tell this to your employer, they might find out b/c they will be suspicious as to why your insurance rate is higher compared to everyone else's. Your attorney will help you. Ask how many months you license may be revoked for. My friend's attorney grilled my friend about why the officer pulled her over, if it was a legitimate reason to pull her over for that reason in the first place.

Good luck, I'm crossing my fingers for you.

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