Escaping the Female Ghetto that is Administrative Work

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kim elizabeth in Janesville, Wisconsin

15 months ago

I always hated this day too, Monique. I worked for the worst boss (and person) ever as a "Secretary" and she treated me like crap every day. A year ago I walked off the job and now I work for a company as an Admin Assistant. Same job basically but it's like working on a different planet. When I first started working here, I would practically be in tears some days because I was treated so much better. Almost a year later it's better than ever. The witch I worked for used to get me flowers every AA day and I wanted to rip them apart and throw them in her face. I have never been treated so badly by anyone and the difference in my life since getting out of there is beyond compare. I know I'm fortunate. There are so many bad bosses out there. I can't even advise looking for another job because you are mostly treated like someone's slave and "less than" on a daily basis in this kind of job.

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

15 months ago

kim elizabeth in Janesville, Wisconsin said: The witch I worked for used to get me flowers every AA day and I wanted to rip them apart and throw them in her face.

Lol!

Yay, Admin Day...the one day of the year when anyone actually acknowledges us. :P

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Monique in Alabama

15 months ago

Although I no longer work in these lousy jobs, I still suffer from depression because I stayed in them too long...I still have flashbacks... Administrative Day is one of them

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

15 months ago

I've been working part-time for the last year at this job. My supervisor stopped me and told me she left a gift for me. I didn't even know what it was for since it was that long since anyone acknowledged my efforts with a gift. I've never been a big supporter of Admin professionals day - I feel like they always treated it like an obligation so I would take off to save myself the humiliation of responding "it's my pleasure" - but, today I feel like even though I really don't like these jobs, I can go another day - pay my bills while I build my own business. I hope that other admins on this forum can find something tolerable while they meet their obligations - family, debts, schooling whatever. I also hope that they can be as fortunate as I have been to find their Plan B - own a business to build their own career and be the boss that they never had. Anyone interested in a Facebook group?

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

15 months ago

Ms Doppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania said: I feel the same way Shingami. I was actually reviewing my resume a little while ago and I feel that my career is actually moving backwards! The positions I've held have become simpler and more mundane. I also don't appreciate when higher ups try to put the weight of the whole company on you and blow smoke up your rear end when we both know well enough but I'm just a bottom of the food chain, expendable, cog. My least my supervisor and manager are up front about the fact that this job is easy and straight forward. And best of all, NO DRAMA!!

Me tooooo!! I also feel (know) I am going backwards. I think that is why I am even more upset and disgusted with this new job. Now, I had the drama and stress you mentioned and I did a lot more, at the new job I usually have nothing to do and it does feel great to not be rushing with work, but I still hate it for the simple fact that I have gone backwards.

I don't want a ton of work, but I want to feel like I'm improving in a role. I'm BACK at as a law firm receptionist in a dead end position. I'm so tired of reception. Even admin roles don't get me away from there, they just combine the two so I'd still be stuck as the receptionst doing admin work, putting away supplies, all while still being shackled to the front desk. These jobs are a definite trap for sure. Run!

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

15 months ago

Monique in Alabama said: Administrative Day!! I use to hate this dam day with a passion...I no longer work in these lousy jobs..But for those who do, try to get thru this day the best you can. I use to be honest and tell them I didn't want any flowers or anything else..i am here to pay my bills and that's it

I wish this day would disappear..it adds further insult

I hate it too. I hated it even more because where I used to work, if you were a secretary your boss would take you to lunch. Other support staff who didn't specifically work for anyone got nothing and I was the receptionisf and got sick of everyone coming up front to stand by the door to wait to leave for their fancy lunches and laughing and chatting. It really made me feel like crap.

I also felt like they felt obligated to do something staff wise. They can screw off with this day. How about more pay and treating us like humans on a daily basis and we wouldn't need this stupid day?

I am interested in a Facebook page!

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

15 months ago

Shingami in Chicago, Illinois said: They can screw off with this day. How about more pay and treating us like humans on a daily basis and we wouldn't need this stupid day?

Exactly!!

20 years in this field of $#&%...and to think they've just *started* recognizing it in the workplace!
I was only supposed to do this until my rock & roll career took off. lol

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Monique in Alabama

15 months ago

Shingami in Chicago, Illinois said: I hate it too. I hated it even more because where I used to work, if you were a secretary your boss would take you to lunch. Other support staff who didn't specifically work for anyone got nothing and I was the receptionisf and got sick of everyone coming up front to stand by the door to wait to leave for their fancy lunches and laughing and chatting. It really made me feel like crap.

I also felt like they felt obligated to do something staff wise. They can screw off with this day. How about more pay and treating us like humans on a daily basis and we wouldn't need this stupid day?

I am interested in a Facebook page!

Facebook page is a great ideal

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

14 months ago

Facebook group is now created. Look for Going Beyond Admin and ask to be invited.

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

14 months ago

lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania said: Facebook group is now created. Look for Going Beyond Admin and ask to be invited.

I can't find it on Facebook. Are you sure it's created?

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Admin. formerly in GA in Dallas, Texas

14 months ago

I am the orignal creator of this thread and it's fascinating to see that it is still going after all these years.

First off, I want to say good luck to those who are attempting to switch careers and congratulations to those who have been able to.

Just an update on what's happened to me since I started this thread. I hadn't be able to go back to school but I'm still trying. I also relocated to Texas. I was laid off from the job I had when I started this thread and once the economy tanked, I was never again able to find a full-time admin job and have either been unemployed or working low-paying service jobs.

While I don't encourage anyone to stay in the administrative field if you can find another alternative, I am more appreciative of the admin jobs I've had since I've only been able to get low-paying service jobs that keep me on my feet all day.

I'm working on being self-employed at this point.

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

14 months ago

Shingami in Chicago, Illinois said: I can't find it on Facebook. Are you sure it's created?

Going Beyond Admin. It's there.

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

14 months ago

Admin. formerly in GA in Dallas, Texas said: I am the orignal creator of this thread and it's fascinating to see that it is still going after all these years.

First off, I want to say good luck to those who are attempting to switch careers and congratulations to those who have been able to.

Just an update on what's happened to me since I started this thread. I hadn't be able to go back to school but I'm still trying. I also relocated to Texas. I was laid off from the job I had when I started this thread and once the economy tanked, I was never again able to find a full-time admin job and have either been unemployed or working low-paying service jobs.

While I don't encourage anyone to stay in the administrative field if you can find another alternative, I am more appreciative of the admin jobs I've had since I've only been able to get low-paying service jobs that keep me on my feet all day.

I'm working on being self-employed at this point.[/QUOTE

Thanks so much for starting this thread. I ran across it being silly asking the question of the internet - what can I do beyond admin. I needed this thread as my answer that day. I felt very much alone in my feelings about my work and to find so many people unhappy about this work was sad, yet strangely comforting. When I first started admin work, I felt more appreciated, but over the course of 20 years, it has been different.

Thanks also for giving us an update. I don't recall what you wanted to do about schooling, but unless you need schooling for a career you are passionate about, I would recommend holding on the expense. I did that route, but it didn't change anything - even working for a place that valued higher education.

Self-employment and entrepreneurship is the most viable option. Good opportunities are plenty in these areas. Best of luck!

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

14 months ago

Admin. formerly in GA in Dallas, Texas said: I am the orignal creator of this thread and it's fascinating to see that it is still going after all these years.

First off, I want to say good luck to those who are attempting to switch careers and congratulations to those who have been able to.

Just an update on what's happened to me since I started this thread. I hadn't be able to go back to school but I'm still trying. I also relocated to Texas. I was laid off from the job I had when I started this thread and once the economy tanked, I was never again able to find a full-time admin job and have either been unemployed or working low-paying service jobs.

While I don't encourage anyone to stay in the administrative field if you can find another alternative, I am more appreciative of the admin jobs I've had since I've only been able to get low-paying service jobs that keep me on my feet all day.

I'm working on being self-employed at this point.

Hello and thank you so much for starting this thread and for the update! I was JUST re-reading early posts and wondering what happened to a lot of those people as this thread is quite old. I'm glad I found it because it wasn't until last year that my disgust in these jobs reached sky high and I wanted out. But when I realized I had no clue how to get out this thread was a good read because I'm not alone. For me it's also getting out of law firms. I'm tired of egotistical lawyers.
I'm sorry you hit a rough patch. When I got fired I wanted that to be my chance to move on, you know how it is. You probably would have never left if you weren't pushed out. Didn't happen for me. I know at this point you would take your old job back rather than McService jobs but I hope you keep pushing forward. I just hate that I settled. And I hate the feeling that I can do no better than to stay a receptionist. It is very frustrating, upsetting and draining. It's exhausting being poor and not doing something you like.

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

14 months ago

Admin. formerly in GA in Dallas, Texas said: I am the orignal creator of this thread and it's fascinating to see that it is still going after all these years.

First off, I want to say good luck to those who are attempting to switch careers and congratulations to those who have been able to.

Just an update on what's happened to me since I started this thread. I hadn't be able to go back to school but I'm still trying. I also relocated to Texas. I was laid off from the job I had when I started this thread and once the economy tanked, I was never again able to find a full-time admin job and have either been unemployed or working low-paying service jobs.

While I don't encourage anyone to stay in the administrative field if you can find another alternative, I am more appreciative of the admin jobs I've had since I've only been able to get low-paying service jobs that keep me on my feet all day.

I'm working on being self-employed at this point.

Part time, min wage service crap is the only kind of job that's available anymore. Especially to us admins. We don't qualify for the few executive level or highly specialized positions that open up so we have to settle for bottom of the barrel. Unfortunately those positions don't want us either because we're overqualified.
There's no middle ground anymore. It's dying with the middle class.

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

14 months ago

The only thing that has worked for me so far is finding (oy joy!) more admin work farther away from where I live.
Our field is dying as companies try to pinch pennies by outsourcing, automating, and forcing fewer employees to wear more & more hats.
Decent admin jobs are few & far between...and by "decent" I mean work that is humanly possible for a wage that you can just barely scrape by with. Be prepared for the insane commute that goes with these.

My original screen name here was Sick Of Admin...now I'm just Sick Of It All! :P

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ElsieSE5 in Los Angeles, California

14 months ago

That is my current issue at the moment. I work as a Revenue Specialist for a great Non-Prof which contracts with a county agency. I love my job, and yes, my duties includes typical office ones. They now want to change my title to include Office Support. I have not signed the form. I do not want that included in my job title. In that case therapists, case managers, supervisors, etc. should have that included in their titles because, they too perform the same menial clerical functions.

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neveragian

12 months ago

Nice to find a place where we think a like. Not sure how healthy it is, but ya gotta vent at times and only other admins get it.
I think I would actually enjoy it, if I was treated with more respect. Its OK for the upper management types to be rude, disrespectful and most of all ungrateful, but if you are having a bad day or god forbid treat them the same as they have treated you, then you are in trouble. I have been doing this for way too long, I took this last job 3 years ago when the economy was bad. I should have left when they told me that I would only be and admin asst. and if I felt I was over qualified then my boss hired the wrong person!! and that was from our HR group. I recently completed my AAS degree in health care management but have not found anything else.....yet. I am tired of fighting for every piddley raise I have received, I was told today that I should be grateful ( again) that I have received the raises I have gotten. this someone is consistently giving me work to do. I have a very type A personality and catch a ton of crap for being honest and assertive. you give me crap I am going to give it back, treat me with respect and you get it back. But management doesn't quite get that.

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

12 months ago

neveragian said: I have been doing this for way too long, I took this last job 3 years ago when the economy was bad. I should have left when they told me that I would only be and admin asst. and if I felt I was over qualified then my boss hired the wrong person!!

This is just about typical with a lot of these jobs. I feel like all these jobs are the same. Most office work I don't mind, But I feel like it's dang near impossible (especially with the bad economy now) to find anything with decent pay and minimal stress.

I saw a posting yesterday wanting the same old "proficient in MS Word and Excel" and typing 60+ wpm for $13 an hour. This is all that is out there. They want you computer knowledgeable that you can teach a class in MS Office but will pay only $12-$13 an hour. And to them that's still to much. That's why I'm so stuck. I'm tired of feeling like I have to kill myself taking computer courses, learning 34 new kinds of software to make $12 to do that and everything else in the office.

I'm looking for something completely different but also still looking for places where I can use my office skills but not in these 'typical' offices where they want you making excel docs and putting away supplies all day.

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

12 months ago

Ha! $13/hour would be amazing...here they usually offer admins $9-11. Yeah! Minimum f***ing wage! And of course they still expect you to be a file clerk/secretary/receptionist/sales clerk/liason/software specialist/social media manager at the same time. Admin work is a joke everywhere but especially in California.

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

12 months ago

Sick Of It All in backwoods, California said: Ha! $13/hour would be amazing...here they usually offer admins $9-11. Yeah! Minimum f***ing wage! And of course they still expect you to be a file clerk/secretary/receptionist/sales clerk/liason/software specialist/social media manager at the same time. Admin work is a joke everywhere but especially in California.

I'd take $13 too but what they want in return I can barely provide. Usually I do see it starting at $11 that is about the base level of pay. I laughed on your list of everything else you need to be. Amen to that! So true.

I think that is what is so frustrating and scary for me. I used to see how a lot of those things were separated. Admin Ass. was one thing. Clerk was one thing. Receptionist was one thing. Accounting was one thing. Now they just fold them all together for $11-$12 an hour and they want expert level in all these different skills and abilities. Before, I could work in an office and never have to open Excel, barely Power point either. No A/P or A/R ever. Now, it's all inclusive. I'm very depressed I'm stuck with these skills in this day and age.

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

12 months ago

Why be depressed when you did nothing wrong? You learned certain things which were specific to the jobs that you've held at the time. It's not your fault that corporate corruption and economic collapse have compiled every administrative position that was once separate.
Honestly I think it's time we started putting our foot down and making it clear to companies that we have 1 or 2 skills in which we excel, but we WILL NOT do everything! If they want us to do more than we do already, they will be REQUIRED to train us in those specific duties. Companies want us to do all the work - no! Put the responsibility back on them. Especially if they want to lowball us with wages.

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

12 months ago

Sick Of It All in backwoods, California said: Why be depressed when you did nothing wrong? You learned certain things which were specific to the jobs that you've held at the time. It's not your fault that corporate corruption and economic collapse have compiled every administrative position that was once separate.
Honestly I think it's time we started putting our foot down and making it clear to companies that we have 1 or 2 skills in which we excel, but we WILL NOT do everything! If they want us to do more than we do already, they will be REQUIRED to train us in those specific duties. Companies want us to do all the work - no! Put the responsibility back on them. Especially if they want to lowball us with wages.

I agree with everything you said. If I can't completely change fields, I'm looking for a job where I don't need Excel 100% of the time or do any accounting/petty cash handling. I don't do math.

I most definitely agree with you that we have 1 or 2 skills we excel in and shouldn't be expected to know and do everything. Or take courses and earn a degree to just come and answer their phones and be their office waitress. It has definitely gotten ridiculous. I honestly can't believe it when I read the list of duties and then get to the pay: $11 an hour. sad.

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

12 months ago

Wow, more and more people experiencing some real negativity in the admin workplace. For those of you who want to go a route of more education - do not think the education will do anything for you. Guaranteed you will accumulate more debt, but as a good friend of mine said - a degree does nothing - it is what you do with the degree that really counts. The fact is, many of us could attempt to be happy in admin jobs, I've tried, but over the years I feel that there is so much disrespect for those of us in these positions. There was a time I worked for people who knew regardless of my formal education, I was a smart and reasonable person - now I have people who treat me like there's something wrong with me. They give me answers like I wouldn't know any better how the company works. What's with that? They think that just saying Wow you did a great job with that - is showing gratitude, but it is negated when you throw me under the bus to avoid admitting you dropped the ball. Really?

For the person who said people here should stop whining - this forum has really helped some of us realize we are not alone in our feelings and views about this profession. Change the channel if you don't want to read it.

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

12 months ago

Going Beyond Admin group being formed on FB

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

12 months ago

lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania said: The fact is, many of us could attempt to be happy in admin jobs, I've tried, but over the years I feel that there is so much disrespect for those of us in these positions. There was a time I worked for people who knew regardless of my formal education, I was a smart and reasonable person - now I have people who treat me like there's something wrong with me. They give me answers like I wouldn't know any better how the company works. What's with that? They think that just saying Wow you did a great job with that - is showing gratitude, but it is negated when you throw me under the bus to avoid admitting you dropped the ball. Really?

You know when they even say 'you did a great job' it's usually with some sort of condensation. They don't respect us and most definitely see us as the stupid, worthless help. Oh, until they need something then you suddenly better become Einstein and Hawking rolled into one. I've had some jobs I liked, some really didn't mind. Because they are go nowhere kind of jobs I always end up leaving in the end. I felt like there are some types of jobs like these where you can work until retirement. Office related jobs that is. Wish I could find one.

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msdoppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

12 months ago

lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania said: Going Beyond Admin group being formed on FB

Hah! finally found it! I just sent a request.

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msdoppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

12 months ago

Shingami in Chicago, Illinois said: You know when they even say 'you did a great job' it's usually with some sort of condensation. They don't respect us and most definitely see us as the stupid, worthless help. Oh, until they need something then you suddenly better become Einstein and Hawking rolled into one. I've had some jobs I liked, some really didn't mind. Because they are go nowhere kind of jobs I always end up leaving in the end. I felt like there are some types of jobs like these where you can work until retirement. Office related jobs that is. Wish I could find one.

Records management is the same way. People pretty much treat you and your function like an afterthought. This means that a lot of times you don't get the resources, support and cooperation that's needed to get the job done correctly. But when they need something all of a sudden the whole burden is on you and it becomes entirely your problem. Oy vay!

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JoJo in Reynoldsburg, Ohio

12 months ago

Shingami in Chicago, Illinois said: You know when they even say 'you did a great job' it's usually with some sort of condensation. They don't respect us and most definitely see us as the stupid, worthless help. Oh, until they need something then you suddenly better become Einstein and Hawking rolled into one. I've had some jobs I liked, some really didn't mind. Because they are go nowhere kind of jobs I always end up leaving in the end. I felt like there are some types of jobs like these where you can work until retirement. Office related jobs that is. Wish I could find one.

Condensation?? Really?? Could this maybe be the reason you don't get the respect you think you deserve and maybe why they think you don't know anything? I'm thinking maybe the word you're looking for here is condescension.

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Helena in West Covina, California

12 months ago

Looking for ideas on how to improve the perception of Accounts Payable within the company I work for. After reading all the comments above, I've found myself relating to everyone here. I'm almost 50 and have spend the last 30 years in Accounting Departments and never achieved the respect any human deserves. I'm attending college nights, one class at a time, and when my supervisor asked what I'm taking she's shocked to find out it's not related to my current position. After all these years I'm taking whatever the heck I want. Astronomy and Real Estate are far from my job realm, but are refreshing insites to what's going on outside the 3 walls of my cubicle. Fortunately my job pays 1/2 my tuition costs, and I can spend my spare time studying. Icsholl, I tried to find the Facebook page you suggested but it doesn't come up for me either. Am I doing something wrong? I typed Going Beyond Admin but I can't find it.

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Helena in West Covina, California

12 months ago

found the Going Beyond Admin group.. admission pending :)

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Still trying to find Going Beyond Admin on facebook...must be misspelling something..will keep trying

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msdoppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

11 months ago

Monique in Alabama said: Still trying to find Going Beyond Admin on facebook...must be misspelling something..will keep trying

When you type in the name click on the magnifying glass icon from the drop down menu. Then select groups from the drop down menu below the MORE option.

That's how I found it.

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Thanks...Do I sign on to facebook first?

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msdoppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

11 months ago

Monique in Alabama said: Thanks...Do I sign on to facebook first?

It's a group you have to ask to join, so yes, you do have to sign in.

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Please disregard my previous post "do I sign on to facebook?"

I signed on...typed in going beyond administrative work..clicked more, but the only result I got was "no results"

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Thanks...Please disregard that dumb question "Do I sign onto facebook first?"

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Thanks..I got it

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msdoppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

11 months ago

Monique in Alabama said: Please disregard my previous post "do I sign on to facebook?"

I signed on...typed in going beyond administrative work..clicked more, but the only result I got was "no results"

It's "Going beyond admin"

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lcschol66 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

11 months ago

Sorry for those of you who have had problems finding Going beyond admin. Thanks to Mrs. Doppelganger for helping out with some instructions. Because I created the group, I wasn't much helping others find it.

The group is to discuss the issues we face, and to encourage and inspire each other, network for those who want to do so and not pass judgement. I'm a little tired of such posts on this forum.

Sometimes people make mistakes, there are things that people need to learn, but they don't need to be belittled because they made them. No one deserves that!

How many people here in Admin have ever made a typo and people you work for jump all over you about it, but when they make a mistake procedurally or operationally, they run to you the admin to fix it - do you belittle them? Could you and keep your job?

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

I am thinking maybe these are one of the worst jobs. As I stated earlier in one of my posts, "I won't wish it on my enemy" I try to steed young people entering into the job market "especially women" away from them. In these type of jobs you are trapped and as someone stated earlier it is very hard to get out of them.

My self esteem was so low I went to a therapist..she stated that the job was not who I am, just what I had to do to survive..I am still trying to accept that

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Sick Of It All in backwoods, California

11 months ago

Well I've escaped at least for awhile.
Landed a 1½ month acting contract (thank God for my artistic background), from late September through early November, so admin work can kiss my @$$ until then.

Ladies, if you have any other talents besides pushing paper and tolerating endless BS, please use them.

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Admin Lady in Detroit, Michigan

11 months ago

Monique in Alabama said: I am thinking maybe these are one of the worst jobs. As I stated earlier in one of my posts, "I won't wish it on my enemy" I try to steed young people entering into the job market "especially women" away from them. In these type of jobs you are trapped and as someone stated earlier it is very hard to get out of them.

My self esteem was so low I went to a therapist..she stated that the job was not who I am, just what I had to do to survive..I am still trying to accept that

I started reading some of the posts on the subject of administrative jobs earlier today and I must say that I have mixed feelings. I can understand feeling dumped on if you don't enjoy your job or coworkers and that could happen in any job not just administrative. I worked for a municipality for thirty years. I started when I was 19 or 20 and I was blessed to retire a couple of years ago with thirty years of service at age 49. Over the years, I worked as a stenographer, legal secretary, city council committee clerk and an executive secretary. I have only a technical certification and some college courses. I did take specialized training which was offered by the city in order to perform better on the job. I never hated my jobs but sometimes I did feel like I was capable of doing more or deserving of more but again I didn't have a degree. The thing that happened to me was that I was employed with the city all those years and I was respected for what I knew. I loved that feeling so I was satisfied most of the time and I was earning about 45,000 per year after suffering two salary cuts, so still not bad. I do wish that I had pursued a degree and I may do that now that I'm retired because I have always loved management. So, my advice is to fall in love with the role you play, contribute in a way that is uniquely you and others can help but respect your role as you do. If you don't respect it, you should be doing something else.

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Admin Lady in Detroit, Michigan said: I started reading some of the posts on the subject of administrative jobs earlier today and I must say that I have mixed feelings. I can understand feeling dumped on if you don't enjoy your job or coworkers and that could happen in any job not just administrative. I worked for a municipality for thirty years. I started when I was 19 or 20 and I was blessed to retire a couple of years ago with thirty years of service at age 49. Over the years, I worked as a stenographer, legal secretary, city council committee clerk and an executive secretary. I have only a technical certification and some college courses. I did take specialized training which was offered by the city in order to perform better on the job. I never hated my jobs but sometimes I did feel like I was capable of doing more or deserving of more but again I didn't have a degree. The thing that happened to me was that I was employed with the city all those years and I was respected for what I knew. I loved that feeling so I was satisfied most of the time and I was earning about 45,000 per year after suffering two salary cuts, so still not bad. I do wish that I had pursued a degree and I may do that now that I'm retired because I have always loved management. So, my advice is to fall in love with the role you play, contribute in a way that is uniquely you and others can help but respect your role as you do. If you don't respect it, you should be doing something else.

Thank you...I did try to fall in love with the role; but, I absolutely hated it with a passion. After working in those awful positions, I am now retired out of them for good!!! But I'm still dealing with self esteem issues as well as depression. $45,000 is a good a year good salary

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

11 months ago

Admin Lady in Detroit, Michigan said: I started reading some of the posts on the subject of administrative jobs earlier today and I must say that I have mixed feelings. I can understand feeling dumped on if you don't enjoy your job or coworkers and that could happen in any job not just administrative. I worked for a municipality for thirty years. I started when I was 19 or 20 and I was blessed to retire a couple of years ago with thirty years of service at age 49. Over the years, I worked as a stenographer, legal secretary, city council committee clerk and an executive secretary. I have only a technical certification and some college courses. I did take specialized training which was offered by the city in order to perform better on the job. I never hated my jobs but sometimes I did feel like I was capable of doing more or deserving of more but again I didn't have a degree. The thing that happened to me was that I was employed with the city all those years and I was respected for what I knew. I loved that feeling so I was satisfied most of the time and I was earning about 45,000 per year after suffering two salary cuts, so still not bad. I do wish that I had pursued a degree and I may do that now that I'm retired because I have always loved management. So, my advice is to fall in love with the role you play, contribute in a way that is uniquely you and others can help but respect your role as you do. If you don't respect it, you should be doing something else.

I wish this could be my story. My aunts did pretty much the same thing except in the Education field. They were fortunate to get jobs at a time when college degrees weren't demanded to sweep floors or answer phones. They retired well before the recession and they sure were lucky!

No way I could fall in love with this role. *vomit* It's barely staying tolerable. I wish retired out of them for good and I'm trying to do just that.

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shingami in Chicago, Illinois

11 months ago

Monique in Alabama said:

My self esteem was so low I went to a therapist..she stated that the job was not who I am, just what I had to do to survive..I am still trying to accept that

This is what everyone tells you, but you mostly hear it from people who don't mind THEIR jobs. I have low self-esteem too because I just subject myself to seeking out the same crappy job time after time knowing I hate it. And these jobs are getting worse.

I have friends who find a happy medium and accept these jobs as just a job, but I can't do it. I didn't realize I was trapping myself.

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msdoppelganger in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

11 months ago

Admin Lady in Detroit, Michigan said: If you don't respect it, you should be doing something else.

Ummm..... That's what most of us on this tread are desperately trying to do!

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Shingami in Chicago, Illinois said: This is what everyone tells you, but you mostly hear it from people who don't mind THEIR jobs. I have low self-esteem too because I just subject myself to seeking out the same crappy job time after time knowing I hate it. And these jobs are getting worse.

I have friends who find a happy medium and accept these jobs as just a job, but I can't do it. I didn't realize I was trapping myself.

You are right..the therapist did share with me that she had a job once she hated so bad it caused her to "hyperventilate".."I think it was "administrative". Now she is in a job she like...Easier said than done

I am sorry to hear you are seeing another administrative job....

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Monique in Alabama

11 months ago

Monique in Alabama said: You are right..the therapist did share with me that she had a job once she hated so bad it caused her to "hyperventilate".."I think it was "administrative". Now she is in a job she like...Easier said than done

I am sorry to hear you are seeing another administrative job....

Sorry I meant seeking another administrative, secretary, etc. job. Keep trying to get out of it, don't give up

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Daphne in Mclean, Virginia

11 months ago

How I got out:

I went to as many informational interviews as I could. I started with the offices close to where I worked (DC is very condensed downtown) and on my lunch break I would walk over or taxi over for a quick 30 minute chat. This worked to my advantage because I didn’t really know what I wanted to do next, but it made me feel good to have an informal conversation with people about careers.

I went to every career fair I could think of. Quality career fairs that were usually associated with an association or trade group. This meant that I had face to face interaction. I asked questions, I told my story. I never demeaned my admin role but I stated I wanted something different.

I volunteered my ass off. I wanted to go into public affairs so any chance I could get I volunteered. I made sure I took on a leadership role too and not just exist as a ‘regular member’. It wasn’t hard getting an executive position being an admin because I sold myself and had been a member of the organization since I came to DC. This exposed me to lots of opportunities in my field.

I went to every resume workshop I could think of. Admin wasn’t my only job, but many of my jobs were admin related. I worked with a free service to tweak my resume and omit any admin sounding things. I put my volunteer work on top of my resume as if it was a real job (and it felt like it because I was putting in 20 hours or more a week). I ramped up my linked in profile.

I got out of i finally when an association board member spoke with me and I told him my story. He mentioned a job opening with a nonprofit handling accounts and I asked him if he could refer me. I interviewed and got the job. (You are more likely to get a job from a referral than any other source). Now I’m planning on getting my MBA, and have the leadership and work experience to make me a great candidate.

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