Assistant to CEO

Hi all:

I need advices or people who can share their experiences on how to handle a 1st day at work, specifically as an assistant to a C-class CEO. Should I meet with him & define his objectices/expectations ? I know the job, but I must say that the first day is always intimidating ! How can I take charge & look uber confident on my first day, I need to hear from those who have been there & done that ! I know that it will be up to me to be proactive & find out what my CEO's needs such as expectations.. Should I contact HR a few days prior and ask them for a detailed job description ? Tips please !!

Thanks,
Amel
L.A.

Amel, I am up at 3 am because I am in a similar position. I realize that so much of it is just a presence of calm and can do, no matter what. When I asked for a job description my HR Manager said it was vague... I think each Exec has their own quirks, and so, they will let you know, and there will be a learning curve. I found some brief rules of thumb on the ehow-to web site. But I imagine I will be asking some questions and discovering what my exec likes and keeping track of every little discovery so that I can develop my own routines for supporting them. Good luck to you.

lol 3 am ! I was up at 1 am when I wrote this posting, I thought I was insane ! Like I should have something else better to do at 1 am on Friday night in Hollywood, CA ! Maybe clubbing ! But nahhh, instead I have been perusing all kind of sites to get prepared for my first day at work. Thanks for your support ! PS: Do you have the link to that e-how web site ??? Oh, and will celebrate & go clubbin' once after 3 months once I know I am OK !

Amel

Amel,
You are like my twin. Wow, you must immediately go to www.officearrow.com. It is a place for all these exec assistant to get together and support each other, a lot of useful article. And free and totally cool and not a big deal to sign up. Then you get an email and then you get an E BOOK on exec assisting! Just read it, and my anxiety level went down about 400 points. Although now I realize with supporting two execs (and then eventually 6) I have my work cut out for me.
What industry are you in? I am in full service advertising.
Looks like our 3 months will be up about the same time.
Best wishes to you!
Kathryn

Cathy in Hayward, California said: Amel,
You are like my twin. Wow, you must immediately go to www.officearrow.com . It is a place for all these exec assistant to get together and support each other, a lot of useful article. And free and totally cool and not a big deal to sign up. Then you get an email and then you get an E BOOK on exec assisting! Just read it, and my anxiety level went down about 400 points. Although now I realize with supporting two execs (and then eventually 6) I have my work cut out for me.
What industry are you in? I am in full service advertising.
Looks like our 3 months will be up about the same time.
Best wishes to you!
Kathryn

Kathryn: All I can say is "indeed, we are twins" I knew about this site, actually I have it bookmarked already ! Needless to mention, I also have that EA book ( PDF) downloaded & saved on my desktop ! I also have a hard copy ! As far as my background, I worked as an EA for a Venture Capital Firm, I will now work in Retail supporting a CFO. I also worked for a CEO prior to that and as a Paralegal. I actually come from a legal background ( ABA paralegal certificate) but quickly came to my senses & decided to seek work as an EA instead ! ( Pays more)..

Thanks, and let's keep in touch ! Can't wait to hear back from you.

Amel

Dear Amel,

Amel
I rocked my first day! They hired me temp to perm, with a one week "trail period" The CEO was introducing me saying, "Kathryn is going to try us out for a week." And now he is giving me longer term projects to work on, and seems very pleased. In fact I am supporting 3 executives and likely 3 more (albeit in lesser ways within the next 3 months.) I love workign in advertising. They are a cooky lovely bunch of people. How was your first day?

Kathryn

Cathy in Hayward, California said: Dear Amel,

Amel
I rocked my first day! They hired me temp to perm, with a one week "trail period" The CEO was introducing me saying, "Kathryn is going to try us out for a week." And now he is giving me longer term projects to work on, and seems very pleased. In fact I am supporting 3 executives and likely 3 more (albeit in lesser ways within the next 3 months.) I love workign in advertising. They are a cooky lovely bunch of people. How was your first day?

Kathryn

Contrats ! I am so happy for you ! As far as me, my first day won't be until Monday Next week ! I am so anxious to get started ! I go have a case of last minute jitters, and I hope all will be OK..

Anyway, congrats, I am confident you 'll get what you want !

Amel, Likewise, I am sure you will get what you want.

The thing I think that has helped me most is not trying to "look good" but just relaxing and breathing and opening my heart whenever anyone is speaking to me, espc my execs. I have found at least in the getting to know you phase, this is more effective than anything I had to say, I really only had to beam openess, and listen to them. Now I am getting s**t done, but it is inside of the relationship I formed with them by just being focused on them, and open.

Imagine what you want, you can have it.

Amel in Los Angeles, California said: Hi all:

I need advices or people who can share their experiences on how to handle a 1st day at work, specifically as an assistant to a C-class CEO. Should I meet with him & define his objectices/expectations ? I know the job, but I must say that the first day is always intimidating ! How can I take charge & look uber confident on my first day, I need to hear from those who have been there & done that ! I know that it will be up to me to be proactive & find out what my CEO's needs such as expectations.. Should I contact HR a few days prior and ask them for a detailed job description ? Tips please !!

Thanks,
Amel
L.A.

Amel...you must be very young and inexperienced in the field or you would not be asking these types of questions. A very experienced EA would KNOW what to do, but...they're older...like me and probably require a higher salary. I'm not insulting you...I was young once too and remember very well a few sleepless nights before starting a new job. My recommendation would be to meet with the Executive a few days after you've been on the job, and ask what they expect of you. Your duties should also be clearly defined by HR. However, shouldn't this have already been taken care of in the interview? Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine!

Cathy in Hayward, California said: Dear Amel,

Amel
I rocked my first day! They hired me temp to perm, with a one week "trail period" The CEO was introducing me saying, "Kathryn is going to try us out for a week." And now he is giving me longer term projects to work on, and seems very pleased. In fact I am supporting 3 executives and likely 3 more (albeit in lesser ways within the next 3 months.) I love workign in advertising. They are a cooky lovely bunch of people. How was your first day?

Kathryn

I think that's "trial" period...not trail.

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Hi,
I was in your shoes once and have since earned a dual paralegal certificate to try to get ahead. I think it best to just ignore HR so you don't have too many 'items of interest' placed in your personnel folder, which could hurt you in the future. Best to just go with the flow and be yourself, or stay true to yourself at all times? Just do the work and avoid confrontation with HR at all costs. You'll do well if you just keep your head down and do the work and avoid gossip at all times! It's best to be less popular and a little more grownup. Regards, Anne Beth

who="Amel in Los Angeles, California"]Hi all:

I need advices or people who can share their experiences on how to handle a 1st day at work, specifically as an assistant to a C-class CEO. Should I meet with him & define his objectices/expectations ? I know the job, but I must say that the first day is always intimidating ! How can I take charge & look uber confident on my first day, I need to hear from those who have been there & done that ! I know that it will be up to me to be proactive & find out what my CEO's needs such as expectations.. Should I contact HR a few days prior and ask them for a detailed job description ? Tips please !!

Thanks,
Amel
L.A.

Very Experienced in St. Louis in Saint Louis, Missouri said: Amel...you must be very young and inexperienced in the field or you would not be asking these types of questions. A very experienced EA would KNOW what to do, but...they're older...like me and probably require a higher salary. I'm not insulting you...I was young once too and remember very well a few sleepless nights before starting a new job. My recommendation would be to meet with the Executive a few days after you've been on the job, and ask what they expect of you. Your duties should also be clearly defined by HR. However, shouldn't this have already been taken care of in the interview? Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine!

Excuse me, but could you possibly be MORE condescending and critical of Amel??? You said yourself, that you didn't always know EVERYTHING. You were once in Amel's shoes. Maybe I missed something in your response, but it seemed very insulting in my opinion. Since you have so much experience, why don't you use it to help others who are just starting out; instead of trying to point out how wonderful, perfect and well compensated you are? Drop the snobby attitude and then maybe someone will value what you have to say!

I am curious how Amel's first day went! I didn't see anything in the postings on it.

I have been an executive secretary (currently unemployed and looking)for over 20 years and am curious if it is as difficult to find a decent paying exec. level admin. job elsewhere in the country as it is here in the Midwest.

Jeri

Company closed making $60,000+ Bonus as AA to Owner. Can't find anything for almost two years now. Been close a couple of times. Not even looking for what I was making. The experience sometimes turns people off because they figure you will not last long.

Jeri in Omaha, Nebraska said: I am curious how Amel's first day went! I didn't see anything in the postings on it.

I have been an executive secretary (currently unemployed and looking)for over 20 years and am curious if it is as difficult to find a decent paying exec. level admin. job elsewhere in the country as it is here in the Midwest.

Jeri

Betsy - So you have been looking for TWO years~??? What have you been doing for money those two years? Good grief. I am having the same problem. I was making $47,000 which is top dollar for an exec. admin. here in the mid-west and now I find I can't get so much as an interview simply because you have to tell them your prior wages and when they see what you were making they don't even want to talk to you. And yes, I have told them I will work for less (much less) and they are still hesitant because they don't want to hire someone at a reduced wage because they fear you will keep looking and leave them eventually. I wonder if anyone has any suggestions or comments regarding this wage issue. That is very discouraging that you have been looking that long. I too have come close to a job offer several times (2 interviews at the same place) but then the offer goes to someone else.