First of all congrat's on your new family adition.
I persnally don't see why she would be sent home. I have seen cadets that get a note from their doctor saying they have a tempory back problem and should be excused from having to do any PT, and they have been. That's not to say it didn't piss off the instructors and other cadets, but this is differrent I don't see why anyone would get upset about it. But if they do, that's their problem and don't let it bother her. I don't think y'all have anything to worry about .
Good Luck to both of you.