Got deep pockets & loads of free time? There's lots to do - if you like putting with heavy traffic, whiny & ill-behaved kids. Parks, movies, the Mall, eat out, clubs, saloons, museums (expensive), libraries, civic events, farmers markets. High entry fees & cover charges go with the territory. Most noisy, cell-phone ridden restaurants seem to gouge you for what you get. Working people used to afford "going out". Not any more.